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Anger Management

A five-week unit that builds one chain in order: notice the warning sign, know what set it off, use a cool-down tool, say it in words, repair it afterwards. Each week adds a link and revisits the ones before it.

5Weeks
20Sessions
30–40Minutes each
12–16Ages

Start here

PDF All-Day Plans One page per skill — what the morning teacher, afternoon teacher, social worker, para and principal each do Download
WORD Program Overview The whole unit at a glance — weekly structure, lesson shape, notes for staff Download
PDF Anger Scale Poster 1 to 5 — the shared language for the whole unit. Put this up first Download
PDF Anger Unit Scoreboard Print once per competition. Works for all five weeks Download
PDF Print Pack Every printable in this unit, in teaching order — one file to send to the copier Download
PDF Where to Start Placement checklist — tick what he already does, and it tells you which skill to teach first Download
PDF Family Sheets One send-home sheet per skill, carrying the exact phrases to parents Download
PDF IEP Goal Wording Three goals per skill, with the tracker named as the data source Download

Week by week

Noticing the Warning Signs

Students learn the body signals that arrive before anger takes over, and identify their own.

WORD Week 1 Lesson Plan “My Body Tells Me First” — editable Download
PDF Do / Not Yet Poster Noticing it early beside too worked up to notice — photo poster Download
PDF Body Warning Signs Poster Eight signals mapped onto a figure — for the wall Download
PDF My Warning Signs Sheet One per student — he ticks his own and circles the first one Download

What Sets Me Off

Students name their triggers while calm, so the hard ones stop arriving as a surprise.

WORD Week 2 Lesson Plan “Knowing What Makes It Harder” — editable Download
PDF Do / Not Yet Poster Moving to a quieter seat beside staying in the noise — photo poster Download
PDF Trigger Cards 12 cards sorted into easy, medium, and hard Download

Cool-Down Tools

Six tools, all practised while the room is calm — because a tool first tried mid-blow-up will not work.

WORD Week 3 Lesson Plan “What I Do When I Notice” — editable Download
PDF Do / Not Yet Poster The quiet corner beside staying at the desk — photo poster Download
PDF Cool-Down Tool Cards 8 cards — print a set per student, he keeps his two Download
PDF Cool-Down Corner Sign For the quiet space — says nobody is in trouble for being there Download

Using Words Instead

Students practise saying what is wrong, so people respond to the problem rather than the behaviour.

WORD Week 4 Lesson Plan “Saying It Instead of Showing It” — editable Download
PDF Do / Not Yet Poster Telling staff beside refusing to talk — photo poster Download
PDF Sentence Starter Cards 10 cards with the situation each one fits Download

Making It Right After

Three repair steps for after a blow-up — short, plain, and never while still angry.

WORD Week 5 Lesson Plan “What I Do Afterwards” — editable Download
PDF Do / Not Yet Poster Putting the chair back beside walking out — photo poster Download
PDF Three Repair Steps Chart For the wall next to the anger scale Download
PDF Repair Practice Cards 8 made-up situations for role-play Download

Read this before running the unit