Five skills taught during real eating time, not as a separate lesson. Each one has the same shape: what it means, how to teach it, the exact words to use, and what success looks like. The wording matters more than the explanation — the same short phrase, every meal, from every staff member.
5Skills
MealsWhen to teach
ShortPhrases
12–16Ages
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PDFAll-Day PlansOne page per skill — what the morning teacher, afternoon teacher, social worker, para and principal each doDownload
WORDComplete Teaching GuideAll five skills in one document — editableDownload
PDFStaff Phrase CardEvery phrase on one page. Print one per staff memberDownload
PDFTable Skills TrackerOne per student — tick when he does it without a reminderDownload
PDFGood Manners or Not Yet?12 sorting cards covering all five skillsDownload
PDFPrint PackEvery printable in this unit, in teaching order — one file to send to the copierDownload
PDFWhere to StartPlacement checklist — tick what he already does, and it tells you which skill to teach firstDownload
PDFFamily SheetsOne send-home sheet per skill, carrying the exact phrases to parentsDownload
PDFIEP Goal WordingThree goals per skill, with the tracker named as the data sourceDownload
Skill by skill
Sit Properly at a Table
Feet on the floor, back on the chair, body facing the table, hands where they belong.
WORDSkill 1 Guide“Feet on the floor.” — editableDownload
PDFDo / Not Yet PosterGood sitting beside not yet — photo poster for the wallDownload
PDFSitting ChartThe four points plus the phrases — for the wall by the tableDownload
Use the Correct Utensil
Fork for food, spoon for food — practised dry first, with hand-over-hand support if needed.
WORDSkill 2 Guide“Fork goes in the food.” — editableDownload
PDFDo / Not Yet PosterFork and spoon beside fingers in the food — photo posterDownload
PDFUtensil ChartFork and spoon, what each one is forDownload
Eat Neatly and Calmly
Four sub-skills: small bites, food on the plate, mouth closed, slow and calm movements.
WORDSkill 3 Guide“Small bite.” “Slow and calm.” — editable, with all four sub-skillsDownload
PDFDo / Not Yet PosterSmall bites beside an overfull mouth — photo posterDownload
PDFEating Neatly ChartAll four, each with the phrase that goes with itDownload
IMAGEClean vs Not Clean — EatingYour own visual — the clearest way to show the differenceDownload
Keep Themselves and the Table Clean
Napkin, hands, table — taught as part of the eating routine rather than a separate job.